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Old 01-21-2014, 03:25 PM
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I'd be hesitant - it sounds to me like she's pushing very hard at the dating boundary. I've never known anyone to use the "if I've been patient, I'll be 'rewarded'" thing with respect to a friendship.

I may be wrong, but I'd be inclined to keep her at arms' length for now.
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