No prob, Atlantis. Dexter is a high-quality series, that's for sure.
And, Eponine, I totally agree with you. There's sooo many types of arrangements and agreements that people can have, and often no reason why the time/attention has to be evenly distributed. Of course that doesn't mean that polyamory is something that everyone would want either -- which is also my whole point. There's an endless variety of people out there. Some would need/prefer one kind of an arrangement; others would need/prefer another. It's not about satisfying the demands of some theoretical ideal, it's about figuring out what each person in the equation wants and is comfortable with. And there can be any number of reasons why a particular person would want what they want.
Thus and so doth the muse strike me for now,
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"