Originally Posted by Natja
Do you think maybe there is a feeling here that somehow by sleeping with the F*ckwits you are rewarding them for bad behaviour? Because I tell you one thing, that is how I felt by reading Scarlet's post, like well great, he didn't get rewarded that night the f*ckwit.
I don't want to sound precious about sex or anything and if you really want to sleep with someone and you don't care whether you see them again or not that is fine, but I just hate the idea of really disrespectful tossers being enabled in their behaviour.
Perhaps if we just stopped sleeping with the f*ckwits they will adapt their behaviour?
Or am I being too idealistic?
Um yeah, idealistic. Your hypothesis is predicated on the idea that they give a shit what your think. If they gave a shit they wouldn't be f*ckwits in the first place.