Thanks for taking the time to reply Magdyln! When you lay it out like that, it makes sense. Definitely will be one of those things that just has to evolve naturally or it's not meant to be.
It might be a tall order, but it's the only scenario I could see myself being interested in poly-wise. I know the reverse FMF seems to be more common but I know it's not right for me personally nor is a more open/group type situation. To thine own self be true and all that jazz.
Again thanks for your time and thoughtful reply! The more I think about it, the more I am not sure I'd be able to meet the emotional needs of two individuals. I don't want to hurt anyone just to live out a fantasy. For now it will remain fun to think about and I'm open to what the future holds - whether it's monogamy, the elusive v, or just being by myself.