I think asking about Saturday would be a very good idea. Keep an open mind, too. Leo and I went to play mini-golf one night & had an amazing time. Silly, but fun.
I wish you great luck on the job front. Feeling more secure just can't be bad!
As for Kip, I don't know what to say. I sincerely hope if you decide to keep wirking on it that he recognizes why the ying was a probem and works with you to get your needs met. Relationships can be hard work, but they are occasionally very worth it.
Me - Mostly mono female, 39 yrs old, married to Leo.
Leo - Poly bi-sexual male, 37 years old. Married to me and looking.