I understand where you're coming from.
OKPea sounds like fun and easy, as opposed to all the big stuff you've been dealing with. I'd give it a go if I was you. Every woman shouldhave the chance to have a fling with a hottie! Might even hit a FWBsituation. Actually, that's how Leo and I started. I met this fabulously hot (younger) guy for coffee, became FWB, and it eventually changed. Not a typical response but I can at least wish you luck and amazing sex! :-D
Good luck on the house front!
Me - Mostly mono female, 39 yrs old, married to Leo.
Leo - Poly bi-sexual male, 37 years old. Married to me and looking.