Leo really likes to talk about his paramours. I am very strict that I don't want to hear details about sex, but I let him talk about pretty much everything else. He doesn't stress me with talking too long, but he really wants to share this wonderful thing with me. In his mind, and mine, sharing the good and the bad is part of being in a relationship, and this is good. It's uncomfortable sometimes, but he is so excited and happy that it's hard not to give him such a small things. Of course, none of this is one size fits all, right? But it might be worth a shot to push past the uncomfortable and let him share his excitement.
Me - Mostly mono female, 39 yrs old, married to Leo.
Leo - Poly bi-sexual male, 37 years old. Married to me and looking.