Yeah, once a month is neglect, especially when others get more. That's part of continuing a bond and a sense of intimacy. Leo would play hell with me if he only had sex with me once a month, especially if he was spendind sexy time with others and neglecting my needs.
Me - Mostly mono female, 39 yrs old, married to Leo.
Leo - Poly bi-sexual male, 37 years old. Married to me and looking.