I think I pretty much win the prize on getting myself into the most unusual poly situations. First I go and fall for a metamour (which led to the end of one relationship and the start of another). And now I find myself in the interesting position of having broken up with said former metamour because his wife (who is one of my best friends) isn't coping well. So on one hand I'm pretty upset that this relationship that was bringing me a lot of happiness has been taken away from me but on the other hand I'm feeling a lot of empathy towards my friend who is going through a lot of stuff. This human relationship stuff is hard. So if there is an award for getting one's self into bizarre situations I'd like to know where to go and pick it up. (Sense of humour remains intact).
Everything will be ok in the end. If it's not ok it's not the end.