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Old 01-11-2014, 06:19 PM
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Originally Posted by ColorsWolf View Post
I personally don't 'define my sexuality', I understand that many people want to do that to feel a sense of 'community' and things 'in common or sharing with others', but I don't think you need to 'label' your sexuality to do that.~
I don't think you actually understand why people define their own sexuality for themselves. There are many reasons doing so is valuable to a person, so I wonder what would make you think the purpose only has to do with feeling a sense of community. The way you put it doesn't make sense to me.


The topic of this thread is to discuss how to date and have polyamorous relationships if one is a virgin sexually, and how important the physical act of sex is to having successful relationships. Let's all try to stay on topic, shall we? Thanks.
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Last edited by nycindie; 01-11-2014 at 06:57 PM. Reason: typo
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