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Old 01-10-2014, 03:09 AM
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Originally Posted by CuriouslyPoly View Post
I think the reason why I don't consider oral sex as "sex" is because a girl doesn't have a chance of getting pregnant when semen is in her mouth.

Vaginal sex is pretty obvious and engaging in anal sex with a girl can get her pregnant if the semen happens to slip out of her anus and gets into the vagina.

I still go by the dictionary term for sexual intercourse...
Intercourse is a type of sex, but it isn't all there is to sex - by any means. By your definition, lesbians aren't having sex. Or when I've spent several hours cumming with a lover who has only used his fingers and mouth on me, it wasn't sex. Yours strikes me as a very immature and unevolved, inexperienced viewpoint.

Oh, and by the way, when you do have sex, I hope it is with women and not "girls" - 'cause a grown man having sex with girls is creepy.
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