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Old 01-10-2014, 01:57 AM
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I wonder...what's the point of being in poly relationships if I don't desire or rather not be be involved in my partner's partner
Because I love my partner, and HE is poly. I want to be in a relationship with him. The relationship configuration is secondary to that desire.

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So there has to be line drawn for polyamorous relationships to work
For you.
For others, there does not.
Both are polyamory.
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