I agree that any relationship has problems . I think the problem is that we or I am always thinking about the things we need to talk about . It seems like everyday there is something new that comes up.
My husband also works all week long at least 8 hours a day this really leaves little time for us to talk. Weekends are mostly spent with the kids.
For the past few weeks we have litterally been staying up for hours disscussing things and it seems like we are only having mini break throughs.