UPDATE: We had a discussion/argument last night that ended well. She told me that there was never a time I couldnt ask her to put her phone down and cuddle. She did say that I am a bit too clingy sometimes, but we agreed we both need to work on meeting in the middle.
She feels like if shes in the room thats enough. I explained being present is dfferent than just being there. I know shes really getting attached to this guy out in California via text. I dont want to ruin that but I do want her to be present with me. She did somethingcool last night. Normally shell snapchatthis guy before she goes to bed, but since we were having quality time indbed, she didnt. Its onlyone time, but it meant a lot.
I guess we'll see how it goes.