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Old 01-09-2014, 06:59 AM
london london is offline
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Its nice to hear that there are still young people out there who see sex as special and it should be exclusive to special people only. I'm very disappointed that young people or people within my peer group these days think that the emotional can be separated from sex when that's false.
Maybe youre unable to separate sex and emotions and want to save sex for some super special girly so you don't go to Hell or whatever, but that certainly isn't my view of sex. Young people don't need you to feel disappointed for them. You have your views that you've been raised with, lots of us do not subscribe to those views and feel sex is a fun activity you can do with whoever you like, whenever you like. That might be everyday with near strangers, it might be never. What's important is that we don't have people looking down on us or feeling disappointed that we are choosing to experiement and discoveru ourselves as sexual beings.

Oral sex, making out, and fondling the body/private parts is just sexual gestures, but not an act of sex.
And this is a common claim that people unfulfilled and unhappy by their self restrictions on sex so they start saying things like "yeah, God won't punish me if I stick my cock in her mouth/he puts his tongue in my pussy because even though I'm experiencing sexual arousal, sexual gratification and even possibly orgasm, because our genitals aren't actually touching so it isn't real sex. Only real sex counts." That is weak, man, seriously. Ether you shouldn't bond with people sexually because it isn't right outside the confines of marriage or a serious, committed relationship or consensual sex between adults is always fine.

Last edited by london; 01-09-2014 at 07:06 AM.
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