She doesn't text on dates or during meals. That goes for when she's out on a date with someone else too. She will text me if she's staying out all night. We also have a rule that she'll text after 4 hours.
What really just got to me was texting someone something so emotional while she was being emotional with me. It just seems like an huge amount of texting. I'm going to have to voice my feelings about the amount. Maybe set texting OSOs or flings for an limited number of hours?
I agree that ADD is no excuse. Its just a factor in the story so I included it.