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Old 01-08-2014, 02:06 PM
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Not presuming anything about anyone. I simply made a statement of fact - with life experience comes the eventual ability to recognize who will fuck us over or cause us harm. And most people will choose the safer path, especially if they care about others in their lives and not just themselves. For some people, it is appropriate to take a stance or fight back. Others have to very carefully choose their battles. It isn't fair or kind to judge those who must hide for their own safety. And keep in mind that there are plenty of people who strongly feel that their private life is nobody else's business, plain and simple, so they have a right to choose who knows what about them. Nothing wrong with that.
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