It's not all baloney. I'm not even sure it's partial baloney. I would love to get in their head as Susan is the same way. Every so often she'll get it in her head that I don't want her any more and instead of trying to get closer, she backs off and spends time with anyone but me.
I don't get it. It's counter intuitive to anything I think or feel. But the pattern is there. If you figure it out, please, let me know