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Old 01-07-2014, 02:42 AM
opalescent opalescent is offline
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Be sad, grieve the loss. But move on. This situation will not improve.

She is deeply insecure - which we all are but she is apparently unwilling to deal with that and puts it on other people. Notice how everyone else is responsible for her feelings? That is not the behavior of an adult. No one makes us insecure. We do it to ourselves. They sound deeply dysfunctional both separately and as a couple. He makes impulse decisions in response to his reading of her moods? Ugh! Also I don't see how you betrayed her - perhaps you should have mentioned the developing feelings earlier. But, honestly, it reads even if you had done everything perfect, there still would have been a shit storm.

RUN. You've been blessed with a warning. This people have shown you who they truly are. Believe them.
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