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Old 01-06-2014, 06:35 AM
JaneQSmythe JaneQSmythe is offline
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Originally Posted by Magdlyn View Post
Oh, and tomorrow is our 2 year anniversary of our first date. It's obvious that hasn't even occurred to him.
I'm sorry that you are feeling this way... but to be fair that would never occur to a LOT of people! (Me for instance ) - in 21+ years of marriage I have managed to remember our wedding anniversary before the day was over...twice? a half-dozen times? (at, maybe, 11:58 PM - usually while I'm not home)?

(PS. luckily no-one, except maybe Lotus, pays attention to it doesn't really matter... Dude and I "made up" and anniversary - at the two-ish year mark - just so we could say we had one!)

(PPS. we don't really do birthdays it's fairly consistent! I can't ever remember my Dad's actual birthday even yet...and I'm trying.)
Me: poly bi female, in an "open-but-not-looking" V-plus with -
MrS: hetero polyflexible male, live-in husband (24+ yrs)
Dude: hetero poly male, live-in boyfriend (5+ yrs) and MrS's BFF
SLeW: platonic girlfriend and BFF
Lotus: "it's complicated"
+ "others" = FBs, FWBs, lover-friends, platonic G/BFs, boytoys, etc.

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