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Old 01-04-2014, 02:41 PM
LoveBunny LoveBunny is offline
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Location: Florida, USA
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I've only been dating outside my marriage for a year, but immediately upon opening my marriage, I somehow managed to date three attractive people in rapid/overlapping succession. I think I got cocky, and figured I'd always have plenty of suitors to choose from. Now, as the last of those relationships has fizzled, stuck in the fuckbuddy zone, I'm finding myself in a dry spell for the last few months with no new prospects on my radar. I sometimes feel frustrated, like I went through all this inner growth, blew open my marriage, endless reading and long talks with hubby, etc., for nothing if I'm just going to lapse back into married monogamy. So thanks for this post, I keep trying to remind myself that being open to the experience and open to having other relationships in my life is enough, and I never again find anyone else I'm compatible with, it's ok.
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