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Old 01-04-2014, 04:46 AM
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Originally Posted by NettleSparks8551 View Post
I immediately burst into tears and said "no", but after being told that I wasn't seeing the positives and given that I can't deny my boyfriend anything, I relented.
You better learn to say no and mean it, if you don't want your bf to steamroll and manipulate you into giving him whatever he wants whenever he wants it. He is acting like a real douchebag and needs to cut it out. Your girlfriend isn't acting much better towards you. Find your backbone and your voice and draw the line! Life is too short to put up with shit that makes you unhappy.
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