Originally Posted by opalescent
Why not? Do you consider yourself incapable of love in general, or just with these people?
I am always curious when someone says something like this. There is no need to answer if you do not wish to.
Do you know what you wanted out of this, with them? If you do, are you getting what you wanted? Are they? Is it hurting anyone, including you?
If you are not getting what you wanted, do not feel treated well or respectfully, and maybe can't extend respect and care back to them (that possibility came across a bit in your postings), and are being hurt, or hurting others, it's time to let go.
Incapable in general.
I can't say what I really want out of this to be honest....well no, now that I think about it I would like some form of equal interaction with the three of us, but I am positive it is not possible with them.I can't say I am hurt, but I have a feeling the wife can get hurt in all of this. If I were to be hurt, it'd be my ego, but not so much my emotions (feelings).