Originally Posted by PolyinPractice
If he has no interest in seeking additional relationships, he's likely worried that he'll feel neglected. Is there any way you can assure him he'll lose little to no time and support from you? Depending on your relationship, this may be possible. If this doesn't warm him up to poly, I'd guess his objections were due to an inability to understand what poly means, or insecurity. Not much I know to help you if it's the latter.
Yes... thus has been my dilemma. He does not want to understand and feels my thoughts are " poisoning the family waters " to directly quote him. And despite any studies I have brought fourth he feels it will be detrimental to our children. He is also insecure as I am the sole breadwinner. I have argued it till blue in the face.