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I would venture to say you have a type of polyamory one might call a "primary/secondary" model. You and your husband each have a boyfriend/girlfriend, who are secondary to your primary marital relationship. This doesn't mean you don't love and respect your boyfriend/girlfriend, it just means they're not as involved with your life as much as you and your husband are with each other's lives.
Some great success stories can be found in Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness
. Also you might like the Life stories and blogs board
All I can think right off hand to warn you of is to see that communication between the four adults here never gets compromised in any way. Communication is vital to making a poly relationship work. Also read as much stuff on the threads and boards here as you can. Post if you have any questions.
It sounds like you have a great setup and are wonderfully supportive to one another. Keep that up!
Glad to have you aboard.
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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