Originally Posted by CielDuMatin
Maybe I'm just reading this wrong, but it still sounds to me like the only reason you are doing this is to improve your relationship with her.
What happened to doing it for yourself?
Sorry if I am out of line with this, but trying to be secure just to keep a relationship going is a very very dangerous thing to do when it's not built on a secure foundation.
I am working on becoming confident for myself also. I'm just so relieved that I didn't phrase things like a needy guy might phrase things.
Two days have passed, and I'm still feeling good. I'm relieved.