I'm so sorry about this situation, LR. My least favorite things include not understanding what's going on, being ignored, and people not standing up for themselves. I can only imagine how frustrating this must have been. Hoping you find peace and/or he wakes up.
Me, 30ish bi female, been doing solo poly for roughly 5 years. Gia, Clay, and Pike, my partners. Davis, ex/friend/"it's complicated." Eric, Gia's husband. Bee, Gia and Eric's toddler.