To Be Honest
We are probably one of those stupid couples they warn you about who open up to help their marriage. Yikes! But in our case, it's worked so far. We fought constantly about sex and I was constantly upset because he wanted sex and I wasn't attracted. Now that he has a lover, he feels much more empowered and I feel "off the hook" and happy for him.
I felt totally engulfed by my family, and like I was not longer just myself. Now, I feel free to go out into the world and feel sexy or play or be wild, and have a secure home to come to. Has anyone has a similar experience?