Feeling pretty judged right now and I'm wondering if this was a good idea.
Just a little bit if clarification, I was not on okc trolling for men. I had a profile back when I was dating and had seen there were some poly people on there. I searched for and messaged women to hear about their experiences. Tolearn from their situations and get advice and I had some great discussions. He messaged me and we were both new to poly and again disussed experiences and journeys. He expressed attraction to me but I shared with him my husbands concerns. There is nothing going on and will not be unless my husband came around. Even then, maybe nothing.
That being said, I agree with the point that was made and altered my means of communication.