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Old 12-31-2013, 05:37 PM
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I think I use "girlfriend" specifically because of its ambiguity. I know what I mean by it, and I always answer honestly when people bother to clarify. But if people want to think of that as my friend who's a girl, or if they make the connection and whether or not they actually ask if I mean girlfriend-girlfriend? I'm not too concerned about what other people think or know. Part of me enjoys the game of keeping them guessing. Maybe I even like the scandalous possibility that people might think I'm having a (blatant) affair with a woman, if they get that far...
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Gralson: my husband (works out of town).
Auto: my girlfriend (lives with her husband Zoffee).

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