Originally Posted by LadyMoon
They are both telling me to just shut the fuck up and let them love me.
Yes, it is a good idea to just let them two love you. I do understand that it might take a while for you to figure it all out, and of course you need to do that. My guess is that your guys are also just getting used to the new normal, and might not have the energy and resources for your personal process at the moment. Glad you found this forum! This is a place where you can post all your questions and thoughts, or just read about other people's experiences.
Happy for you and yours!