Sounds like you're in a great place and can hardly believe your luck!
When I became established in poly and things were going well (after 30+ years in an ultimately unfulfilling mono marriage) I would come close to tears at my joy in feeling loved and respected for who I really am.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
me: Mags, 59, living with:
miss pixi, 37