Originally Posted by EdibleStrange
If you're interested in ME, then it doesn't matter who I love or who I fuck.
Regardless of whether a potential partner is mono or poly, it will probably matter and probably should matter. Disregard for who your partner is fucking is a disregard for your own personal safety....think diseases. Also "who you are fucking and how many you are fucking" will impact many of the things a lot of people associate with commitment i.e availability and sexual fidelity. Being interested in someone may temporarily put the blinders of NRE on but eventually things of logical concern will seep back in.