I'm sorry about M, but you deserve better. And it's great the sex was wonderful, but lots of men are good in bed.
Dealing with a lover with stupid couple privilege sucks.
Best wishes in the new year!
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags, F, 60, poly-dating, loving and living with
miss pixi, F, 38
Punk, 41, M (dating since Oct 2015)
and a few more casual relationships