Originally Posted by london
Yet you think a neurotic parent, one chasing a man and a dad who is there for you when his wife let's him is preferable?
I am hardly neurotic. We haven't had any issues until recently. My first suggestion when L started acting strange was no more overnights or dates until she was feeling better. He comes over when he gets ready. He has a key. I recently told him that he was making things worse by coming over when she says she can't handle J by herself. I don't see where I'm the problem. I don't interrupt his time at home. I've set it up so he can come and go as he pleases, and I have arranged for other childcare when he needs it. Feeling pretty accomodating over here. Loving my child doesn't mean I don't exist anymore.