Originally Posted by scarletzinnia
It sounds to me that G didn't want to have a child with anyone but his wife. And it certainly sounds like L didn't want him to have children outside their relationship either.
If this is the case, I am wondering why you proceeded with the pregnancy in the first place.
I only proceeded because he was so happy when I told him I was pregnant. He told me that they had discussed the possibility of me getting pregnant and they were both fine and happy with the prospect of having a family with me. I don't know why he would lie since I was willing to have an abortion if having the baby was going to harm their marriage. He told me that they both loved me and that he was thrilled to have a child with me. Reading your post has given me doubts though. I have some thinking to do.