My take on "Family Values" is that it depends which family your speaking of and their particular values.
Religious groups, which claim to represent the family (not mine I'm sure) are living in a fantasy world, the 50's are long past, the Father Knows Best and Leave it to Beaver world's were made up fiction, and perhaps the times idealized family, which never really existed.
I try to love my wives this way, unconditionally! Husbands love your wives, even as Christ loved the church, and gave himself up for her. Eph. 5:25