Greetings C and J,
Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc.
Hope we'll be able to answer some of your questions here; I'm usually pretty good about staying on top of the intro board, so if you post anything in this thread, I'll definitely respond. But have a look around on our various boards and see what interests you.
You might want to look around and see what local poly groups might be in your area; that's another good way of meeting some new friends and finding out what some of the answers to your questions are. If you google "San Jose polyamory," "bay area polyamory," and/or "San Francisco polyamory," I bet some local poly groups will turn up.
Good luck in your search and I hope that in due time you'll find the special couple that's right for you. Will J still retain her current long-distance boyfriend at that time? Just curious.
Kevin T., "official greeter"
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