One of my wives suggested my screen name, she said: you're old and poly and a man. I have a more well known screen name (last I googled up to 18 pages) since I've been writing extensively on topics I care about, but before we were out, my concern was to protect my family.
I try to love my wives this way, unconditionally! Husbands love your wives, even as Christ loved the church, and gave himself up for her. Eph. 5:25