Gralson works out of town, 10 days on 4 days off. He's usually home for 2-4 of those days, depending on where he's working and how long it takes to travel there.
I see Auto when we can. Her work and family life are really busy. We go through waves of higher and lower frequency.
Because I only have a few days to see Gralson each month, and we are married after all, I usually don't book non-family stuff on those weekends (except beamtime). Auto understands and isn't bothered by this.
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someone else putting you in a box is entirely different
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