Does he have family coming over the holiday?
If he does and is in the closet with family that may be why his time is limited.
I am personally trying to figure out how to either clone myself our time travel so I can be everywhere I need to be for Christmas. Christmas eve we (me, Butch, Murf and the kids) are here together. Then Christmas day we will watch the kids open gifts. Then Murf the kids and I are going to his family.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.