It seems like the greater odds favor the husband being the bio dad. She could get a paternity test with her husband quietly on her own when ready without sharing her health business or her husband's health business with the BF at this time. Since she currently experiences BF as controlling and maybe abusive at this time.
If it is husband's? Paternity problem solved without involving BF at this time.
If it is NOT husband's... consider how to deal with sharing or not sharing that info with BF at THAT point in time.
Could take it one thing at a time here. It isn't like they have to go in for paternity tests as a happy trio.
Last edited by GalaGirl; 12-21-2013 at 04:57 AM.