P spends two days with me, then two days with M1 (homes are 1.5 hours apart). If there's an event or something that requires rescheduling, then we swap some days around such that it's workable. It's more of a co-primary arrangement than primary/secondary, although we don't really use the terms.
P doesn't really have much time to himself, though, and at this point, doesn't really know what to do with himself when he does. That part's still a work in progress, I think.
Mono. Divorced, two kids, two cats, one house with many projects.
Chops (previously 'P'):
My partner of ~3 years. Poly. In relationships with me, Xena, and Noa.
Xena (previously M1):
Poly. In relationships with Chops and Noa, and dating others.
Noa (previously AG):
Married, Poly. In relationships with Chops and Xena (individually).
My navel-gazing blog thread:
A Mono's Journey Into Poly-Land (or, "Aw hell, there's no road map?!")