P spends two days with me, then two days with M1 (homes are 1.5 hours apart). If there's an event or something that requires rescheduling, then we swap some days around such that it's workable. It's more of a co-primary arrangement than primary/secondary, although we don't really use the terms.
P doesn't really have much time to himself, though, and at this point, doesn't really know what to do with himself when he does. That part's still a work in progress, I think.
Mono. Divorced, two kids (DanceGirl, 13; and PokéGirl, 11), two cats, one house, many projects.
My partner. Poly. In relationships with me, Xena, and Noa.
Poly. In relationships with Chops and Noa, and dating others.
Married, Poly. In relationships with Chops and Xena (individually).
Blog thread: A Mono's Journey Into Poly-Land (or, "Aw hell, there's no road map?!")
Slightly more polished blog with a mono/poly focus: From Baltic to Boardwalk