I spend between 2 days and 8 days a month with Richard and we've been together for 10 years. I spend an average of one day and night with Lee every other month and we've been in a relationship for 4 years. I have other people that I see also. My relationships are pretty intense and very emotionally intimate. We focus on quality time together rather than quantity.
The key to life is in being fully engaged and peacefully detached simultaneously and authentically in each moment.