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Old 12-20-2013, 02:24 AM
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I don't rank my relationships according to a primary/secondary hierarchy and I make myself available on a "first come, first served" basis. Whoever schedules and confirms time with me first gets put on my calendar and I don't cancel for other people. Whoever else wants time with me waits to see when I can schedule them in. I live alone and practice my egalitarian brand of poly as a solo. No one is more important than anyone else, and the frequency at which I can get together with someone varies according to what is going on in our lives but could be once every few weeks to three times a week. It would be highly unusual for me to see any lover more often than that.
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