Women are so much more work!
Seriously, though (OK, I was being serious before) RP, Enjoy your abundance of love and be careful not to lose sight of the fact that you are so well-loved that there isn't time enough in a day to drink it all in.
I am especially excited for the two of you because I know you have desired a special woman in your life, and you are all friends. I'm sure its frustrating to feel blocked, though. Hugs to you and Derby, you too. I'm with Y-envious.