Wow, how devastating! Appalling!
I wouldn't let him into the house. I'd divorce that man so fast his head would spin. You definitely do not need to support him through "recovery" from his sex addiction.
The hypocrisy of spending major bucks on lap dances, phone sex, prostitutes, even just the expensive drinks at the strip clubs, while castigating and guilt tripping you for taking your kids to ChickFilA.
My sympathies, hon.
Love withers under constraint; its very essence is liberty. It is compatible neither with envy, jealousy or fear. It is there most pure, perfect and unlimited when its votaries live in confidence, equality and unreserve. -- Shelley
Mags (poly, F, 61) loving miss pixi (poly, F, 39) since January 2009, living together since 2013
"Master," (mono, 34), miss pixi's Dom for 2 years