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Old 12-18-2013, 03:56 AM
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However, as I have written before, I am taking a good hard look at myself and what are probably attachments issues. Meaning I don't attach easily or quickly.

Kip has partly been an experiment in trying to attach emotionally . . .
Huh. This is the opposite of my relationship goal, which is to love without attachment. I've written about this a few times here. Basically I believe that getting attached to someone is not a good place to be. Interesting that you're striving to feel attached.
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