Originally Posted by GalaGirl
When was the last time an abusive person walked up and said "Hi! I'm an abusive person. Want to go out on a date with me?"
Just point blank like that? He probably fronted a good initial game. Cracks didn't show til later. *shrug*
It isn't her fault he's loopy. I say good for her -- 2 mos in and she's ready to bail before it gets crazier. Just needs help doing so. I've seen people stuck in abusive relationships for years. Ugh.
Agreed. I know a woman for whom reality is an often tenuous ever-changing (depending on how she feels at the moment) thing. However, on a casual basis, it really isn't obvious. She knows enough most of the time to look sane in most situations. It is only after you come to know her well that you start to see what a nut case she is.