Just started reading your blog yesterday. I wish I knew you! But that whole less than 18" of snow not being an emergency is a hindrance on that. lol Thanks for sharing your story.
It's nice to know I'm not the only mono girl living in a poly world. I've found putting some thoughts on the back burner is very useful. It gives my subconcious time to sort things out a little so I don't sound like a giant dork when I verbalize myinternal musings. I hope your shopping doesn't get blocked too much.